David Giguere

Let’s Define Sex First For many a year, people believed there could only be sex between a man and a woman. In other words, only penetration involving a penis and a vagina was considered sex. Similarly, people believed that “lesbian sex” was a different kind of intercourse between two lesbians. That, however, is a myth we’re going to dispel now.  For starters, let’s define sex. Despite what many people believe, sex isn’t penis-into-vagina-penetration solely. The list of what sex includes a variety of actions you’d never think are regarded as such. The incomplete list includes: Penetration (penis in vagina) Penetration with sex toys Mutual masturbation Anal sex Oral sex on a vagina, penis, or anus Manual stimulation (fingering, hand job, fisting) Sex toy play with no penetration Clitoral and anal play Boob or nipple play Dry humping Now that we’ve defined sex in general let’s move on to lesbian sex definition. This act isn’t reserved for women-having-sex-with women only. Lesbian sex involves females who identify as bisexual or pansexual. Further, it may involve cisgender women on the one and a transgender woman on the other hand. Yes, believe it or not, lesbian sex may involve gender identities other than females.  …

There are many people out there that believe that BDSM is violent, non-consensual, and unsatisfying. The truth is the opposite. As you can probably guess, Fifty Shades of Grey did an awful job depicting the lifestyle behind it, and it created a false picture. In reality, BDSM can be relaxing, meditative, and similar to the effects people get from yoga. If you are not into BDSM, there is no way we could change your mind, but we can at least explain why this is so much more than kinky sex for so many people across the world. Sadomasochism Is the New Yoga Sadomasochism is nothing new. It has been around for quite a while, and people love experimenting with their sexuality and in the bedroom. However, for some, dominance and submission mean a lot more than you can imagine. BDSM or bondage discipline dominance submission is a wide term that covers a lot of different things and kinks, and the BDSM scene has been stronger than ever. What do BDSM practitioners find so exciting? There are numerous reasons why someone might be into BDSM. We all know that sex is one of the best ways to relieve stress, and BDSM…

If you’ve been in a few relationships, you know the drill. Sometimes, it can just turn into the same old, same old. Is it possible to get bored of sex? This is definitely a valid question, and examining it will save you a lot of stress and worry. So check out our breakdown of sexual boredom! We’ll discuss why sex gets boring for men and women, and we’ll also reveal some tips that can cure sexual boredom. Does Sexual Boredom Happen? Everyone knows that too much of a good thing can actually turn bad. Just consider peanut butter and chocolate! You can easily get bored of anything. That is especially true for sex in long-term relationships. Fortunately, some of the reasons why sexual boredom happens may not reflect the state of your relationship. In fact, people’s daily lives and their work can take a toll on their mental state. However, couples can be responsible for their sexual boredom if their stance changes from proactive to reactive. That is, your sex life and bedroom activities could get boring if you rely too much on spontaneity. While there’s always a place for wild and spontaneous sex, you can eliminate boredom if you…

If you are wondering about ways to have fun with your partner without having penetrative sex, we might be able to help you. There are so many reasons why you might want to explore outercourse and enjoy spending time with your significant other.  Our Sex Drive, Then and Now Teenagers are horny. We all know that. All of us experienced unlimited hornyness during puberty, and that’s perfectly normal. However, one of the problems that happen is that constant build-up without sex will lead to heightened libido but no satisfaction. What is interesting is how it all changes as we get older. With age, the libido starts lowering until it fades into nothingness. That might seem depressing to some people, and we should tell them from the start that it is, in fact, depressing.  As we grow older, we have access to sex anytime we want (hot singles near you). But it seems that people are less interested in having sex as time passes by. Maybe it’s a bit less exciting once you don’t need to hide with your boyfriend/girlfriend or the very fact that you can’t do it whenever you please.  Whatever the reason is, there is no denying that…

What is the secret to great sex in relationships, and how can you improve your sex life? Some things that you can try are physical exercise, yoga classes, etc. But, if you really want to get down and dirty, sex toys will instantly revolutionize your time in the bedroom! So check out our article if you want to know how to choose a sex toy with your partner and learn how they will benefit your sex life! Great Sex Life What does it mean to have a healthy and exciting sex life? Sex is different for everyone. People in relationships usually have a lot of time to learn what makes their partners tick. Also, sex is mainly about physical pleasure and the emotional connection, and it can be a superb intimacy-booster. When it comes to bedroom activities in long-term relationships, people should always strive to make the experience better for themselves and their partners. Still, it’s not always easy to keep the fire flowing in long-term bonds. One of the biggest reasons why couples experience sexual boredom is the fact that they simply stop trying. They could forget to experiment and to broaden their sexual horizons. Regarding great sex, many…

Hyper-Sexuality: What Is It and Should You Be Worried? Sex is something most of us find incredibly pleasurable. So, it’s evident that we can get addicted to it. And maybe hypersexuality sounds funny, but it’s an addiction like any other. Experiencing extreme sex urges isn’t as interesting as it seems. Like drug or alcohol addiction, it can affect your job, relationships, and the way you see yourself. And the worst thing is that hypersexuality is often a result or symptom of other disorders, emotional baggage, or trauma. Here you can read about the causes, consequences, and treatments of hypersexuality. What Is Hypersexuality? Scientists and psychologists don’t really agree on what hypersexuality is. And some people don’t even believe this illness exists! They think that hypersexual behavior is simply something that people judge, but not necessarily bad. However, there’s the fact that people who suffer from it can’t control their sexual drives and impulses. And this can make a negative impact on other aspects of their lives. They usually obsess over their sexual fantasies and engage in sexual activities so much that it affects their jobs, relationships, and even self-esteem. READ: What Is The Psychological Definition of Libido? And only in…

Can you make sex better by working out, and what are the best kinds of exercises for improving your sex life? Well, exercise can benefit you in many ways, but you may not have known that a short cardio or weightlifting session can turn you into a true powerhouse in bed. Keep reading to learn more about the best exercises for better sex! Get Fit for Better Sexual Performance For starters, sex is an activity that can wear you out physically. The reward of a thunderous orgasm can quickly be followed by awkward muscle strain and back pains. It’s true that sex can help you burn some calories, but you should never use it as your sole source of exercise. Regular exercise and training can truly work wonders for your health, but it can also improve many aspects of your sex life. So what sort of exercises are the best for sex, and how can they benefit you? Well, strength and stamina training, along with some other sex exercises like Kegels, can improve your performance, make sex feel much better, and help you feel good about yourself. Those are just some of the benefits that you can get in return…

If you’re in a new or long-term relationship, it can sometimes be difficult to know how to initiate sex with your partner effectively. It’s easy to make mistakes and create an awkward situation. Luckily, you can follow some simple sex advice that we’ve revealed in this article to help you break the ice. Why Initiate Sex? While sex is hot and exciting, it can also be incredibly complicated. Many people can feel embarrassed or awkward when it comes to initiating it. Successful sex requires confidence, consent, direction, communication, and many other factors. Yet, it’s incredibly easy to make mistakes. If unsuccessful, you could come off as confusing, passive, or even pushy. In most cases, simply asking for sex or grabbing your partner will not work. It can create an embarrassing counter effect or worse. Great sex requires a combination of seduction, romance, and arousal. That’s why it’s important to focus on why and how you initiate it. Fortunately, when you learn that seduction and arousal are just as important as sex itself, you will be able to break the ice with great success. That applies to dating as well as long-term relationships. Therefore, it’s essential to focus on flirting and…

The Importance of Prostate Health Among Men There are many reasons why doctors keep warning men about prostate health risks — the risks for prostate cancer among older men are high! Besides, symptoms don’t have to be that obvious. That means you can fail to detect the problem in time! But there are other prostate health issues men of any age can face. It doesn’t even have to be that severe like cancer, but you should still get treatment! After all, prostate health issues can cause serious problems, such as erectile dysfunction and painful urination. And these problems can damage not only your reproductive system but also the way you see yourself as a man. So, obtaining and maintaining your prostate health is essential. The first step you should take is to keep yourself informed about the potential risks and measures to take to avoid them. That way you can detect the problem and visit a doctor in time. Here’s what you need to know about the prostate’s location, the role it plays in your reproductive system, and the things you can do to keep it healthy. What and Where Is the Prostate Gland Located? The prostate gland makes part…

Have you ever introduced toys into the bedroom to spice things up? Cricketer Andrew Flintoff has – although his toy of choice is a little bit more left-field than usual. In the new Channel 4 show Married To A Celebrity: The Survival Guide, Flintoff revealed that he wears a Fitbit activity tracker during sex to encourage him to “work a bit harder to impress his wife.” His wife Rachel seemed far from impressed, however, describing his coital monitoring as “weird” and “really wrong.” Sorry Rachel, but we’re with Freddie on this one. Research has proven that we burn 3.6 calories per minute during sex – more than during a brisk walk. And there are a range of other health benefits that come from sex, as we reveal below. So stop slogging and start snogging (your legitimate partner – no naughty affairs please). Reduces stress According to a small study of 46 men and women, stressful activities such as public speaking caused more stress to people who had not recently had sex. Getting frisky between the sheets has been found to lower your cortisol levels, which is also known as the stress hormone. Even a hug boosts our oxytocin levels and…

If you’re a single guy and not living under a rock, then you’ve probably heard of the dating or rather hook up app called Tinder. Tinder is basically an application that lets you like or dislike profiles of people by swiping right for “like” or left for “nope”. Tinder lets users upload pictures from their Facebook profile and also adds a snippet of information from their profile as well. Although women are on tinder for different reasons, tinder is in my opinion better for one night stands than OKCupid or PlentyofFish because subconsciously, women view Tinder as a “hook-up” app”. The goals of this guide are simple: -Get an attractive girls attention/attraction -Get her number as soon as possible -GET LAID within 24 hours on tinder. Ideally within 2 hours.NOT get a date, not text a girl endlessly and hope she chooses you and certainly, not to go on multiple dates. The facts to remember: There are at any given time, a number of girls that are DTF (down to fuck) on tinder. EVERY attractive girl on tinder has multiple guys messaging them and they are interested in multiple guys as well. Tinder is possibly the most superficial dating app…

We are fortunate to be living in the modern-day and age because we do not have to conform to false morality. Instead, we are encouraged to embrace our sexuality. The era of sexual abstinence is long over. We live in the epoch of sexual openness and empowerment. Nowadays, you are just a few clicks away from everything you have ever wanted to know about sex. The expansion of the BDSM community has made even the information about various kinks available. Now, you have likely already learned about various benefits of sex. But have you tested your knowledge on a daily basis? Some people have sex far too rarely. They disregard (or forget about) the importance of sex on a regular basis due to their busy schedule, thus, neglecting their sexual health. Sex is not an activity you should only do if you have time to spare. If you have been putting it off, you may need to be reminded of the reasons why you should enjoy it daily — not once a week or a few times a month, but every day. Sex Is an Excellent Cardio Exercise Even though the modern world has numerous benefits, there is one big…